Let's say you have a goal - a Dream to become something or to accomplish something.
For the moment, this goal or dream is your mission in Life. It's your new job.
Now, as with any new job, there are certain procedures you must follow and skills you must learn to do the job.
You will learn how to set-up your work station and create the proper working environment so that you can use your skills to sell, produce, or to accomplish certain tasks safely and efficiently.
During your training, you will pick up certain tips and tricks to make your job easier and your skills more effective. You'll have hands on experience and practice this crap everyday to improve your skills and game.
You will also learn what you need to do and how to respond when things go wrong. This will also improve your game.
After a few weeks, or several months, or a year (depending on the job), you will have enough skill and ability necessary to handle almost any problem that comes your way. You won't even think twice about it. If something goes out of whack or a customer has an objection, you know what to do. Even if you don't KNOW the answer or proper response, you know the logical thing to do is to get someone that does so that you can correct the situation quickly and move on.
More than likely, you're doing this on your current job right now.
You don't worry because you know how to respond if there's a problem.
And, that's what makes you confident in your ability to go to work, know your job, and do it without having any second thoughts about it. You could probably do that job with your eyes closed. Am I right?
You don't need a manager or supervisor standing over your shoulder coaching you. As a matter of fact, you could probably teach him or her a few things and train any newbie that came through the front door because you know what to do to get the job done and how to respond if any issues should come up. So, your confidence in doing your job is supreme. You're not afraid of screwing up or confused about what to do. You know what to do and you do it.
This is the way it is with having confidence while trying to accomplish your goals.
You learn the ropes.
You learn how to respond if there's an obstacle or objection or a roadblock.
If you don't know what to do, you look for advice and ask questions of people who have experience with the situation. Or, you go to the source and ask what you need to do next. Don't forget to think things through, research, and get a second opinion of other professionals or people in the know.
The key is "how you deal with the situation" or "respond" when problems arise.
It doesn't matter if you're trying to get a new job, get assistance, get a date, start a business, or if you're learning a sport.
When you know how to respond and deal with the situation, you should not be overly nervous, worried, or afraid.
You make moves. You use your game to overcome the drama. You look to the resources available for help.
You do whatever you need to do to keep your momentum going and that's all you should be concerned about.
No, it's not all cut and dried or easy, but it will become easier as you learn and move along. So, don't run from the drama. Complain, rant, and rave, if it helps you to stay motivated but welcome the obstacles. Learn how to deal with them so that you will know what it takes to accomplish this goal as you have learned what it takes to overcome the obstacles and problems on your job. Respond like a Gladiator and go to war with the issue. Use your supreme game and defeat it.
And, don't let one setback keep you down. I don't care if you've got to call around all day or travel from where you are to Timbuktu! Make moves and handle your business! That's having the eye of the Tiger and one of the most supreme ways to stay and become confident.
For the moment, this goal or dream is your mission in Life. It's your new job.
Now, as with any new job, there are certain procedures you must follow and skills you must learn to do the job.
You will learn how to set-up your work station and create the proper working environment so that you can use your skills to sell, produce, or to accomplish certain tasks safely and efficiently.
During your training, you will pick up certain tips and tricks to make your job easier and your skills more effective. You'll have hands on experience and practice this crap everyday to improve your skills and game.
You will also learn what you need to do and how to respond when things go wrong. This will also improve your game.
After a few weeks, or several months, or a year (depending on the job), you will have enough skill and ability necessary to handle almost any problem that comes your way. You won't even think twice about it. If something goes out of whack or a customer has an objection, you know what to do. Even if you don't KNOW the answer or proper response, you know the logical thing to do is to get someone that does so that you can correct the situation quickly and move on.
More than likely, you're doing this on your current job right now.
You don't worry because you know how to respond if there's a problem.
And, that's what makes you confident in your ability to go to work, know your job, and do it without having any second thoughts about it. You could probably do that job with your eyes closed. Am I right?
You don't need a manager or supervisor standing over your shoulder coaching you. As a matter of fact, you could probably teach him or her a few things and train any newbie that came through the front door because you know what to do to get the job done and how to respond if any issues should come up. So, your confidence in doing your job is supreme. You're not afraid of screwing up or confused about what to do. You know what to do and you do it.
This is the way it is with having confidence while trying to accomplish your goals.
You learn the ropes.
You learn how to respond if there's an obstacle or objection or a roadblock.
If you don't know what to do, you look for advice and ask questions of people who have experience with the situation. Or, you go to the source and ask what you need to do next. Don't forget to think things through, research, and get a second opinion of other professionals or people in the know.
The key is "how you deal with the situation" or "respond" when problems arise.
It doesn't matter if you're trying to get a new job, get assistance, get a date, start a business, or if you're learning a sport.
When you know how to respond and deal with the situation, you should not be overly nervous, worried, or afraid.
You make moves. You use your game to overcome the drama. You look to the resources available for help.
You do whatever you need to do to keep your momentum going and that's all you should be concerned about.
No, it's not all cut and dried or easy, but it will become easier as you learn and move along. So, don't run from the drama. Complain, rant, and rave, if it helps you to stay motivated but welcome the obstacles. Learn how to deal with them so that you will know what it takes to accomplish this goal as you have learned what it takes to overcome the obstacles and problems on your job. Respond like a Gladiator and go to war with the issue. Use your supreme game and defeat it.
And, don't let one setback keep you down. I don't care if you've got to call around all day or travel from where you are to Timbuktu! Make moves and handle your business! That's having the eye of the Tiger and one of the most supreme ways to stay and become confident.
