Your Communication Skills: The Number One Asset Of A Player's Game

Of ALL the skills that you possess, your communication skills will be your number one asset. You can't truly live and enjoy life without it.

You need communication skills for dating, socializing, negotiating important contracts, writing or texting, and for attracting a potential high quality prospect for a love connection.

You need communication skills if you're going to master the art of persuasion.

Good communication skills expand your levels of creativity, strategy, and self-expression.

Improving them will elevate your game inside and out.

You will notice that your confidence will improve when you learn how to communicate more effectively with proper gestures, body language, your style, facial expressions, and a larger vocabulary.

But, still, if you work on developing your confidence in addition to developing your communication skills, USING your communication skills will become easier for you to use in real life situations.

In fact, you can practice your communication skills almost every waking second of your life.

And, no one would ever know it.

You have to interact with other people almost daily - either online or face to face - so, each time that you interact with someone, you have the opportunity to practice talking about certain subjects or to work on your eye contact, or to work on your confidence , or work on your approach.

You could start elevating your game immediately - once you research and learn some good tips.

If your communication skills are top-notch already, evaluate the other aspects of your game to achieve success. But, if you're not making moves and out there winning because your conversation skills suck, then get on the "fast track to success" and learn the basics.

You don't have to be a pick-up artist or great orator.

To get started, all you need is enough conversation skills to express yourself clearly and effectively - and to ask the important questions.

Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself by trying to learn specific "high level" persuasion and mind control techniques right off the bat.

Some people can jump right into those things and use the techniques successfully, but most aspiring players will have to expand their minds first with some of the basics.

- small-talk
- casual conversation topics
- personal conversation topics
- body language
- style and appearance
- being assertive
- etc.

After they understand the basics, THEN they should move to that higher level stuff.

Millions of dollars are being wasted right now because a lot of those poor slobs out there have spent their hard-earned cash on "personal development systems" and self-help products that they don't have the mind or heart to use.

Those gurus tell everybody: "I've spent years researching ALL the information I could find about blah, blah, blah... and now I'm a millionaire."

Those gurus are telling you that they have learned their art from ground up.

Even if they didn't start with the basics, they learned the basics.

And, if you're not getting RESULTS from your work or talents, then you should learn the basics too.

Expand your Mind. Expand your Creativity. Expand your Confidence.

Do it today.

The sooner you get those communication skills up to a higher level, the sooner you will be able to enjoy The Good Life... and, The Player's Lifestyle.


- Live The Good Life and.. The Player's Lifestyle

Develop Confidence In Conversation, Communication, and Speaking

Now, I don't want you to think I'm trying to pass myself off as some communication or public speaking guru but, trust me when I tell you that improving your conversation, communication, and certain social skills, will help boost your Confidence and Lifestyle.

Even if you are superb at "communication" and getting your point across, improving your social skills can still help you get more happiness and greater opportunities out of life. Even if you're a tyrant, a bully, or a manager you can benefit just by the way you approach people, negotiate, delegate, interrogate, and show common courtesy and respect.

Now, I'm not saying that you should let anyone run all over you or be more humble or more passive. That would only lead to your downfall (or poor sales). I know there are times when you have to be assertive and commanding. Hell, if you're paid to be in charge, then be in charge. But, know that you create better vibes, more effort, and more opportunities when you lead with "good social skills" or "people skills".

(I'm starting to ramble...)

So, anyway...

The bottom line is:

If being in social settings make you nervous, uneasy, uncomfortable, or shy, research and develop your communication and social skills.

- learn from some of the gurus and their books or videos
- read (and when you have time, read out loud)
- learn scripts (similar to sales or medical questioning and advising scripts)
- create your own scripts or memorize and act-out certain passages and dialogue in a book
- role-play
- learn acting
- create communication and social rituals where you plan to say or do certain things everyday.
- learn social and communication skills from others
- don't doubt your social and communication skills too much; jump in and interact, and just go with the flow of statements and questions; if you don't know much about the subject just listen, learn, and ask questions

This will give you a significant boost in personal power because you will stop seeing simple situations as  challenges for you to give a perfect "performance" and instead see these social situations as opportunities to have fun, learn, produce, and contribute to your growth, prosperity, and future. AND, you're helping the people you talk to in the same way. So, there's no reason for you to be nervous. You definitely should feel good about that.