Many people - probably most people - equate success with status, fame, and money. Some people feel that success means being on the highest level among the elite. Being the best or one of the best.
A few people have philosophical views about success. Like: being on track with one's goals and in control of one's destiny.
Who can say that any of these beliefs about success are wrong?
The most important thing is how you feel success is defined in YOUR life. What Success means to You.
You don't have to be a tycoon, a celebrity, or a guru, to live the good life or for your life to be a success. The main point is how you feel about your Self and your life as a whole.
Do you feel your life is secure?
Are you proud of where you are in your life right now?
Are you satisfied in what you've accomplished up to this point?
Are you confident in where you are going?
Are you able to trust and feel at ease with the people in your life?
Are you enjoying life?
If your mind is full of doubt in any one of these things, you should learn and study the habits of successful people to turn your life around. When you start to learn the habits of successful people you will begin to have a more focused mentality. Your awareness level will be turned up a notch. Your mind will expand, because it will make you see people, human interaction, and yourself in a different light.
You will be enlightened and have a new perspective on life.
But!
Don't overwhelm yourself with research. It will bore you to death or make you depressed and stagnant.
Live and Enjoy your life. Learn these habits one step at a time.
Practice the habits daily. That's the key. Make them rules and philosophies that you live by.
Act out what you learn. Don't just learn and analyze. Use the principles and incorporate them into your game.
Just as the True Players in the Game are the essence of The Player's Lifestyle, your game is the essence of your lifestyle. It will determine whether you are failure or a success. It will determine whether you are a Boss or a bum.
There are many principles of life that will help you achieve your idea of Success. They can be found in millions of great books. They can be found in millions of videos. They can be discovered through everyday human interaction or observation. Write them down and live by them religiously.
Now... If you're 100% positive that you are ready to elevate your mind and your lifestyle - without fear, doubt, or reservation - If you're ready to be the Boss of your life, take heed then to these few principles that True Players live by:
Tact in dealing with people (often called "people skills")
They have Faith in themselves and their abilities (Moreover, many of them have Faith in something Greater than themselves. They know they are blessed and "Special" above the average man or woman.)
Asking critical and important questions
Strategy and Timing
Being Assertive
Taking Action
They have a clear vision of what they want, where they are going, and GENERALLY what they need to do (each step and every goal). Sometimes things change. Sometimes "shit happens". Sometimes, someone will throw a monkey-wrench in your plans. Adapt and adjust if it's to your overall benefit or if it's "good politics" (in your business relationship, romantic relationship, or family/social relationship). But, don't change your plans for foolishness.
Being creative
Being aware of what's going on in your industry and area of expertise
Being independent and not waiting for handouts
Looking for options
Avoiding too many tasks, opportunities, ideas
Organization and Structure
They plan
Having resources, friends, and allies
Willing to take risks
Being Bold
Having good instincts
They don't make excuses. They're up, ready, and strive to get the task done
They KNOW they must research, hustle, and work hard. When you have that mindset, the job is a lot easier. "Hard work; Easy money."
They don't back down - especially when they have leverage and know how to negotiate.
They follow the rules and live by the code, BUT... know when to bend the rules also.
They know their priorities and respect each of those priorities in the order they've established.
They don't tolerate bullshit or foolishness. They avoid it and handle their business.
These are a few reasons why True Players live the good life and The Player's Lifestyle.
- The Player's Lifestyle
A few people have philosophical views about success. Like: being on track with one's goals and in control of one's destiny.
Who can say that any of these beliefs about success are wrong?
The most important thing is how you feel success is defined in YOUR life. What Success means to You.
You don't have to be a tycoon, a celebrity, or a guru, to live the good life or for your life to be a success. The main point is how you feel about your Self and your life as a whole.
Do you feel your life is secure?
Are you proud of where you are in your life right now?
Are you satisfied in what you've accomplished up to this point?
Are you confident in where you are going?
Are you able to trust and feel at ease with the people in your life?
Are you enjoying life?
If your mind is full of doubt in any one of these things, you should learn and study the habits of successful people to turn your life around. When you start to learn the habits of successful people you will begin to have a more focused mentality. Your awareness level will be turned up a notch. Your mind will expand, because it will make you see people, human interaction, and yourself in a different light.
You will be enlightened and have a new perspective on life.
But!
Don't overwhelm yourself with research. It will bore you to death or make you depressed and stagnant.
Live and Enjoy your life. Learn these habits one step at a time.
Practice the habits daily. That's the key. Make them rules and philosophies that you live by.
Act out what you learn. Don't just learn and analyze. Use the principles and incorporate them into your game.
Just as the True Players in the Game are the essence of The Player's Lifestyle, your game is the essence of your lifestyle. It will determine whether you are failure or a success. It will determine whether you are a Boss or a bum.
There are many principles of life that will help you achieve your idea of Success. They can be found in millions of great books. They can be found in millions of videos. They can be discovered through everyday human interaction or observation. Write them down and live by them religiously.
Now... If you're 100% positive that you are ready to elevate your mind and your lifestyle - without fear, doubt, or reservation - If you're ready to be the Boss of your life, take heed then to these few principles that True Players live by:
Tact in dealing with people (often called "people skills")
They have Faith in themselves and their abilities (Moreover, many of them have Faith in something Greater than themselves. They know they are blessed and "Special" above the average man or woman.)
Asking critical and important questions
Strategy and Timing
Being Assertive
Taking Action
They have a clear vision of what they want, where they are going, and GENERALLY what they need to do (each step and every goal). Sometimes things change. Sometimes "shit happens". Sometimes, someone will throw a monkey-wrench in your plans. Adapt and adjust if it's to your overall benefit or if it's "good politics" (in your business relationship, romantic relationship, or family/social relationship). But, don't change your plans for foolishness.
Being creative
Being aware of what's going on in your industry and area of expertise
Being independent and not waiting for handouts
Looking for options
Avoiding too many tasks, opportunities, ideas
Organization and Structure
They plan
Having resources, friends, and allies
Willing to take risks
Being Bold
Having good instincts
They don't make excuses. They're up, ready, and strive to get the task done
They KNOW they must research, hustle, and work hard. When you have that mindset, the job is a lot easier. "Hard work; Easy money."
They don't back down - especially when they have leverage and know how to negotiate.
They follow the rules and live by the code, BUT... know when to bend the rules also.
They know their priorities and respect each of those priorities in the order they've established.
They don't tolerate bullshit or foolishness. They avoid it and handle their business.
These are a few reasons why True Players live the good life and The Player's Lifestyle.
- The Player's Lifestyle
